HRYBL Coaching Philosophy
Simply put, youth basketball coaching is leadership. To be a great youth basketball coach, you must be a great leader. Leaders are people who have developed the skills needed to motivate, guide, and direct others in a positive direction.
Leaders are made through discipline, training, experience, and the desire to continually improve. Below are some guidelines to help you be the best leader you possibly can be:
Learn to be strong but not rude.
Some people mistake rudeness for strength. It's not even a good substitute. Learn to stay relaxed and friendly when dealing with others. This applies to fellow coaches, your player's parents, officials, administrators, and especially the players on your team.
Learn to be kind but not weak.
We must not mistake kindness for weakness. Kindness isn't weak. Kindness is a certain type of strength. Basketball coaches must constantly look for ways to show their basketball players that they sincerely care about them as individuals.
Learn to be bold but not a bully.
It takes boldness to win the day. To build your influence, you've got to walk in front of your team. You've got to be willing to take the first arrow, tackle the first problem, and discover the first sign of trouble. Basketball coaches need and must be tough, but don't go over the line. Your organization (players, parents, etc.) will resent you for it.
You've got to learn to be humble, but not timid.
You can't get to the top of the basketball coaching ranks by being timid. Some people mistake timidity for humility. Stay humble, but always be courageous in overcoming life's daily struggles and fighting for your basketball program. Sometimes we must be willing to fight for what is right and just.
Be proud but not arrogant.
It takes pride to win the day. It takes pride to build your life. It takes pride to build a winning basketball program. It takes pride to want to be the best basketball team in the state. It takes pride to be willing to stand-up and fight for what you believe in.
Develop humor without being a clown.
That's important for a basketball coach. In leadership, we learn that it's okay to be witty, but not silly. It's okay to be fun, but not foolish. As a basketball coach, when my team is practicing on the court, I'm all business. But when we are off the court, try to have fun with your players as much as possible in a professional manner.
Never past negatives down.
You're basketball team will reflect your attitude. If you want a positive, upbeat basketball team, then you must portray that image. Leaders keep presenting the positives, keep pointing everyone toward the accomplishment of the team's desired goals, and keep setting the example for everyone else to follow.
Count Your Blessings
One of the beautiful things about life is that we all have choices. We get to choose how we will react to each and every situation that happens to us in life. We can choose to be positive and believe that good things are going to happen to us. Or we can choose to be negative... No matter what we choose to believe, it affects us and how we live life, and how we coach our basketball team. As a leader, you must do your best to stay positive and believe with all your heart that brighter days are just ahead! As you know, this can be very tough to do when dealing with the daily struggles of life.
Remind yourself of all your many blessings in life. It's very tough to have a pitty-party for yourself and think the world is falling apart when you spend time reflecting upon all the things in life you have to be thankful.